Love & Responsibilty

40% of the time i spend in thinking about things is about the family life. And not because of whether i face it or not, but i think it is one of the most important issues happening mostly in the modern societies nowadays, especially in the developing countries.

Thinking about it maybe does not waste too much, in fact, I know one family very clear. This family seems to be well living from the outside look; however, if we come a little nearer, there are many things existing that nobody knows. Pretty complicated, the father of this family is working as soldier in somehow the high ranking in the governmental institution, and the mother is a forestry administration officer. They have 3 sisters and all are the girls, isn't this great? The 3 sisters are in a very very different manners.
The elder sister is not different from others girl, but what it makes her different is her unkindly face and this is making her lonely. However, she never cares about those things because she always thought to herself that she wouldn't be lonely as rite now she was living in a very warmed family as this is all she has and never want anything else besides having a wonderful time with her family. She is very strict, self-discipline, time-selfishness, unfriendly, pessimistic, and boring. These are her weakness points as it always isolate her from anyone else. Those doesn't even matter much for her cuz what makes her living in her own special way is her peaceful mind towards others. She never think of competing with others so that she can win or to be jealous with the one that is above her, she just wish to live in peace, help people, and be with her family in a very warming. PS: she is very very ambitious, isn't she?

The middle sister, she is very very different from the elder one,,,, she is very friendly and with everyone she meet, those people are very wanted to be her friend. She is also very ambitious too as she wants to be the ambassador due to her languages understanding since she can talks Japanese fluently, English, Khmer, and French. She is really amazing. She never cares too much about other worried things, she's always happy with what she doing and her whole life unlike her older sister.

About the youngest one, she is kindda not really noticeable as she's just like the other girls who like girlie dolls, making up, and cooking. She is very talented and creative in doing those things i have mentioned above. She always help her sisters esp the eldest one...hahhahah,,,the opposition to other younger sister who are helped by their elders. She is not really ambitious cuz she just want to do what she likes to do but she is very pure in her special way.

Like what i have written, this is not going to the way they have expected as Father and Mother with 3 daughters living harmony and happily. In contrast, there parents are not loving each other anymore. The father have had another woman for a couple of years that makes the wife very hurtful and irritable. The mother, she acts as both father and mother, she works as the father for the money and the mother for taking care of her 3 sisters. This is a very grateful for those 3 daughter to have the mother as her mum and they are never regretful to be her daughter. They always pray and obey gratifyingly to her mother. Contrasting to their father, he does love her daughters but not the mother, and that make the mother even more hurt. He said that because the mother doesn't fulfill the role as a mother and wife. To this reason, i think it's just an excuse of the father to the mother, instead he just want to have fun with love and ignore the whole responsibility he has for his family. The father and mother, they argue with each other most of the time as the mother always think about the past and suffer from that disastrous memory and the father always guards himself as a good father as he does everything are for their daughter only.

Unexpectedly,  they are not even thinking about their daughter really want. This is even more and more hurtful to be living in this type of family. Everything is all the Pretending and fake. However, the elder sister even this problem happening as directed oppositely to what she dreams of, but she will never lose hope as she is now a medicine student purposing to achieve her goal working in the world health organization helping people who are in need to be living in a better lives, fairly, equally, and peaceful. The second one wishes as she wants to be happy all the time she living on this earth and another one just dream about her life with beauty and smile.

All in all, i don't know how to end up this real story, but just wait and see what really happen next for this family live. Is it going to be well ending or the worst one?

I hope this question will be soon resolved.

Love,
Nariroth Keo